When the news is good, it's GREAT! We have a court date on June 4th! My husband is out of town, so we will celebrate when he gets home! I can't tell you how excited we are...unless you have been through this, you already know!
Every step of this process does not come without worry. Basically, it works like this. The court appointment is for our son to become "legally" our son. Now, with some changes in the process, the US Embassy will require him to go through a TB screening prior to our travel. Hopefully, all will be well and we could travel 2-4 weeks later! What may determine not passing court could be if his mom does not show up at the appointment with the proper identification. For those of you that don't already know this, she is dying. If she passes before the date, we could be put in an abandonment situation (don't really understand why, since she relinquished him). That would hold things up. Or, if he didn't pass the TB test, that could hold things up as well.
I am going to think positive and assume we will pass, he will pass, and his mom will be there for us to meet! That would be so amazing! We are asked to write a letter to the birth mom if she exists, and I am just finishing it up. It's so sad, but I hope I can reassure her that we will give him the best home possible! Before she leaves this earth, she will hopefully have peace in her heart.
Big Round World, Small Square Box
7 years ago
I'm so glad you have a court date! I will be praying you pass the first time, and for negative TB tests. Our court date is just 2 days away now, so I've been praying hard that B's birth mom will come to court and everything will be in order. I hope you will have a peaceful wait, and not be too anxious like I've been. I'm finally starting to relax!
ReplyDeleteJune 4th! Looking forward to it for you! Praying for PEACE in your process - who needs roller-coasters in the process? Praying for passing THE FIRST TIME!
ReplyDeleteloving this prayer time! It's such a good thing! Let's bring these kiddos HOME!
Love,
Maria
You were right! This was your week. I'm so happy for you. Yes, let's all keep thinking positively.
ReplyDeleteThanks Tina for the comment. Thanks for your prayers. I haven't had anyone I've been talking to have court yet. I wish I didn't have the first court date out of this group.. I feel the pressure to pass! But I LOVE the support and prayers we are getting from everyone. I'm praying for you too!
ReplyDeleteHi Tina! I would LOVE to look up your son while I'm there!
ReplyDeleteHow exciting!!! I am praying for you that the TB test will be clear, and that she can meet her new family....you are her family in the way you care for her & your new son! So excited for you!!!! Praise Be to God!!!!
ReplyDeleteHi Tina!
ReplyDeleteThanks for introducing yourself on the listserve and linking your blog! June 4th will be here before you know it. We'll be praying for you!
Congrats on your court date...Our date is May 25th...Maybe we'll travel together :) kristi
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